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Sleep has gone to pot - help!

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rhaenyra01 · 27/10/2023 19:12

My 8 month old DD has been in a pretty good sleep routine for the past 3, maybe 4 months - she goes down to bed at 7pm, wakes up once through the night for a bottle (the time can vary), then wakes up for the day at 7am. Suddenly she has started waking any time from 5:30 to 6:30.

DD has a morning nap usually about 2 hours after she’s woken up, which is normally an hour or so, and then will have another nap early afternoon. Sometimes she has a 15/20 minute cat nap in the car if we have to go somewhere in the afternoon but I don’t think she’s getting too much daytime sleep.

I wondered if her bedtime needed moving later but she seems absolutely exhausted by the evening, and once it gets to 7pm she is definitely ready for bed. I was going to try and push it to 7:30 tonight but she was rubbing her eyes at 6:30, and very tired and grumpy by 7 so I had to put her down at normal time.

I’m just a bit concerned with the clocks going back, that she’s now going to be waking up at 5am and going to bed at 6pm. Does anyone have any tips or advice? I don’t want to force her bedtime later and make her overtired and unhappy but the thought of 5am wake ups and then having to go to work are not ideal!

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Whatisityoucantface · 27/10/2023 19:18

You could cut the morning nap, more like 20/30 mins and bring the afternoon one forward? I’d have her up from 3pm til bedtime.
Regardless, 5:30-6:30 is perfectly normal wake up for babies! It’s so so tough though I know!!!
Try give her a later nap when the clocks go back. And then push bedtime a bit later too. I’m always surprised at actually how quick they adapt to the clock change. But might just be famous last words…lol!!

Flittingaboutagain · 27/10/2023 19:42

Bloody hell count yourself lucky. Neither of mine have ever gone longer than four hours and are still up at 6am and one is almost three. But on a more useful note, if you're looking for sleep cues and using her behaviour as a guide for naps, consistent with a bedtime routine you're doing all you can. Your baby is hitting the tricky time of separation anxiety on top of teething, ongoing weaning and digestive changes and a big development leap and growth spurt.

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