Help - looking for some advice and/or if anyone as had a similar experience with their ex.
I have 2 DC and obviously separated from their Dad. Same old story, ex lazy, won’t do any more than is absolutely necessary, won’t spend where he feels it’s not needed, expects to be spoon fed in terms of appointments, clothing etc. My dilemma is that, i will contact him only when necessary and it concerns the DC. For example: what time are they being collected or dropped back when they visit him. Often get no response and if I ask again I’m accused of invading his time and being abusive/making him feel inadequate. He’s threatened to block me, which I’ve said is fine, as I really don’t want to talk to him anyway, but then it’ll cause issues not being able to communicate, namely for me and the DC.
How would you handle this? Should I go to the family courts so that expectations can be made solid?
I must stress, I only contact him when absolutely necessary, depending on the week and what needs relaying, at a minimum, once, maximum three times. Our DC each have medical needs and various hospital and school appointments.