My five month old girl is mostly breastfed but has always been given a bottle before bed from around two months old. I’ve always done the bedtime routine as my husband makes dinner but for around a month now my husband has been trying to do bedtime but baby goes absolutely crazy until I come and take over. Her and husband are best of friends all day long and he’s given the odd bottle in the morning while I have a few hours sleep and she’s absolutely fine, but at night something just clicks and sh goes mental.
We’ve tried me leaving the house, husband sitting with us and then moving onto me sitting in with them (which she sometimes entertains but other times not), he has worn my clothes, literally tried everything.
We have a wedding to go to at the end of October and there is no way I can leave her with anyone (she gets really stressed out being with other people after a while, even grandparents) so already my husband has said he won’t go which is sad enough, but the fact that he can’t even put her to bed is making me so anxious about going. I don’t want her screaming all night which I think she will (she screamed for nearly an hour on one occasion with my husband and had no sign of letting up)
Is there anything I haven’t tried?? Am I missing something??