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Is this a normal reacting for breaking a mug?

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Infinitewaters · 18/09/2023 23:43

If you were babysitting children and one of them (a 5 year old) dropped a mug on the floor and broke it. He was so distressed, crying a lot (to the point his breathing was disrupted) and was begging me not to tell his dad it was him and to say it was me instead. I could see how scared and desperate he was and I felt so sorry for him. He also made a comment about being spanked by him.

Is this a normal reaction for a child this age or would you be concerned?

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Radiodread · 18/09/2023 23:45

No, absolutely not normal. Poor little boy.

TheShellBeach · 18/09/2023 23:45

Yes, I'd be concerned.
That reaction seems disproportionate.

Infinitewaters · 18/09/2023 23:46

sorry, should also add that it was his ‘dad’s favourite mug.’

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Greensleeves · 18/09/2023 23:46

Normal for an abused child who lives in fear. Call social services and tell them what you've posted here.

Radiodread · 18/09/2023 23:52

Doesn’t matter if it’s a family heirloom worth thousands. A five year old should be able to look to parents as safe, reliable people not emotional powder kegs that blow up because of a bit of broken crockery.

Infinitewaters · 19/09/2023 00:00

@Greensleeves it happened in 2019. I’d just turned 18 at the time and it was my first (and last) babysitting job, only lasted a few months. I was unsure at the time whether it was off but because it was the only incident like this I assumed it wasn’t.
Posting now because I was googling a well renowned parent-infant website and was so shocked when I saw his face on there as a chief executive. The first thing I thought about when I saw him was this incident with the little boy.

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