Our children argue almost constantly and it is really wearing me and my husband down. We’ve tried all sorts to fix it, with some successes but we seem to be in a cycle where it gets better for a while and then worse.
our children are just very different people. One is more introverted, likes physical activity but also needs down/quiet time without talking and socialising. Hates sudden loud noises and people touching him. The other could socialise all Weekend long and thrives being around others. Loves being with people, cuddling. She is very loud naturally even when just speaking and has a lovely but intense personality. There is ND thrown in to the mix too.
Im wondering if actually no matter what we do, because of their personalities being so different we will always struggle with arguments. We often go off and do things 121 with them and enjoy the time to dedicate to them. I’m wondering if we need to do this more regularly such as very Saturday divide and do things 121 with them, coming back together at dinner time. Has/Does anyone else do this?