I'm writing this as I sit crying after leaving the home following another argument. I have 3 children, 11, 9 and 7. I'm struggling. My 3 children fight and bicker constantly. I am struggling to cope with everything tp the point I daydream about just leaving. Myself and husband are fine, he's hands on with the kids but I'm with them most of the time. I work from home school hours so I'm around tp do school pick ups etc. Every morning is a drain trying to get them ready, they're fighting, they ignore me constantly and I run around like a muppet. I know a lot of families find this a stressful time but the daily monotony is draining. I collect them from school and the fighting between them starts again. They call each other horrible names, argue with me. Currently my 9 year old is going through an awful phase, 3 weeks in, we've banned him from Fortnight for good, as feel it's affecting his behaviour. He's vile towards me... he can go for hours being rude, telling me no when I ask him simple things, he'll peck and poke be horrible to siblings, today he called me a goddamn idiot, I can't take any more. I feel like my family unit is miserable, shouty and we're going eound in circles but I have no patience left, it's groundhog day. Every day. He turns everything round pn me saying I don't care about any of them etc ,I tell him constantly the way he speaks to me and behaves is what gets me so angry, I don't wake up like it. I'm at my wits end with it all.