I've been divorced for around 2 years now and have a 5.5yo dd. We coparent 50/50, I did have more time at first when she was younger but now it's pretty much an even split.
Dd has had her first week back at school in year one and has been extra clingy with me. She's at her dads tonight and I just popped round to pick up some bits I'll need for the weekend with her and she completely broke down when she saw me, clinging to me sobbing and begging to come home with me for bedtime
It was truly awful having to peel her off me and wave bye to her while she was crying so much. I thought we were through that and she had adjusted to being without me but moments like this absolutely destroy me 😠it doesn't help that exh is a bit of a nightmare generally and he will use this against me somehow.
I just keep picturing her little face, I can't remember the last time she was that upset