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Mother of my children lying

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dadneedingadvice12 · 30/08/2023 17:02

The mother of my 2 children consistently lies about the children misbehaving and breaking things in order to get me round to the house and start questioning me on my current relationship or whatever else she has on her mind or to get some more money out of me. She twists what our children say in order to make me feel guilty for leaving her 5 years ago even though she has a new partner herself. Funnily enough this only happens when her new partner is not at their house. Is there any sort of order I can get in place aswel as CMS to prevent this contact? If I don't respond she threatens she will tell our children I don't care about them and don't want to see them. I am so tired of it and would not want nothing more than a peaceful co parenting relationship but she seems to want anything but most of the time. This has been going on for nearly 2 years and im at my wits end. Our children are the ones who will suffer in the end because they are at an age where they realise the toxicness and i can't bare the thought of it.

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qazxc · 30/08/2023 17:08

What are your current arrangements regarding maintenance and contact? Maybe you do need them to be on a formal footing so that there is stability and recourse should one of the parents not comply. I would also stop going round her house.

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