I'm so confused! We moved to a new area 2 years ago with our 1 year old and new born. We found out (much to our surprise) that we were entitled to universal credit. My fiancé works full time and we own our house outright as partner had inheritance from father passing away. So as part of this we were given 15 hours childcare for our eldest son when he turned 2 (he was born June 2020) fast forward to this year and I've ensured our youngest (born July 2021) has a place at the same nursery only to find out we're not entitled to childcare for our youngest and it'll cost us £360 a month for him, plus nappy and food charges for both so over £400 a month.
I've been searching for jobs for months, looking to work on the days when my partner is off, I'm really struggling! I had a half decent career before children but I was 38 and kept suffering miscarriages so I gave it up to focus on conceiving. We are still sending our youngest and paying the fees but people keep telling me it should be 15 hours for each child? Any advice welcome, I'm still looking for work, just a simple part time job.
We don't have any family nearby to help so could only use a nursery. I've been on the gov website and it just keeps saying no childcare allowance for our youngest but eldest has 15 hours. I know it sounds awful but it's been a difficult period with 2 under 2 and I was looking forward to the 15 hours to myself to search for work, catch up on housework etc! Our 2nd son was a surprise, I was on the pill and didn't think we could conceive on our own after a very difficult first pregnancy with daily injections etc.