Ex has just given three days notice that he's not having children for the next two weeks. I have a CAO but no money to get a solicitor involved. And even then, does anyone know if there is anything I can actually do about this? My children are distraught as they were really looking forward to seeing him. He's been gradually getting worse and worse lately with this sort of stuff, its been 3 years this week that I ended it so its like he's planned it on purpose.
What do I say to the kids? And is there anything realistic I can do? How do others deal with this sort of thing? He copied in a solicitor and has blamed it on me, says I have caused him financial hardship...this is a bloke who earns £75k and often doesn't pay the measely child maintenance he's meant to!!! I think he's mad but know he's also a narcissist through and through. Its going to completely f up my plans as I was going to be doing some temp work as Im completely broke, I am sure he's done it on purpose for this reason. Its post separation abuse but noone seems to know what I can do about it. I do get post domestic abuse support but even she said there's very little I can actually do. Its beyond me to understand that nothing can be done, the impact on me, and the kids is so big, seems crazy he can carry on with this disruption and abuse from a distance.