So I’ve been with my husband nearly 4 years and we have two children together. A 16 month old and a 4 month. Our marriage was great at the start I loved him wigh my whole heart. He was there for me through the most difficult times which I’ll always be thankful for.
After my second he just changed: he has loads of down days which he says it’s down to depression but won’t talk to me about it and when I press him he says I’m annoying. He always comments on everything I do.
I have post natal depression, so I’m worried my babies don’t love me the most as I’m their primary caregiver. I do every single thing: I’m up all night with the baby and in between making sure the toddler is settled whilst he’s asleep as his thyroid makes him extremely exhausted.
When my daughter is close to me Everyone makes comments abojt how she’s just bothered about her mum but when she’s ignoring me they’re watching my reaction to when she’s kissing them or showing them love. Which is just strange. My husband makes comments like oh she doesn’t kiss me like that. Or he asks who I love me more. And tells me he loves hee more.
Honestly everydya im worried my daughter will love my in laws more than me as we live with them and they literally give into everything she says. And I just can’t get through these thoughts.
Really when he’s down he’s just rude to me: and passive aggressive and tells me he’s a different person . So really he’s not the person I fell in love with. I can’t do it anymore.
I can’t live like this