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AIBU to limit Lego

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warmmfeet · 20/07/2023 19:28

Sorry to anyone who finds this ridiculous
I'm just curious if anyone has a similar situation and what you did - if anything

DS is 4 and he is utterly obsessed with Lego. I love Lego and I'm glad he's found something he loves, that he can be creative with that aids skill development in lots of areas.

He inherited 3 lots of mixed bricks from older cousins so we have tons. He will happily play with it for hours. I know I'm lucky in this regard that he doesn't need entertaining. However I really struggle to get him to do anything else at home. He'll do painting or play in garden for 10 minutes then he's itching to get back to Lego. He's definitely got an obsessive personality!

I'm thinking of limiting his Lego play. Like 1 session in the morning and one in the afternoon. 3 hours a day total. Just to encourage him to engage properly in other stuff.

But is this just weird and mean of me?
I want him to try other stuff and develop other skills but he's still really young so maybe I just need to chill out ?!

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SnowyPetals · 20/07/2023 20:52

warmmfeet · 20/07/2023 19:51

@SnowyPetals thanks, that's very interesting. He's been this way since he was 2, it was diggers, trains, then Lego! I wonder what will be next.

My DS went from diggers to trains to cars to chess to rubiks cube, then anime and then computers. I think they might be the last one but who knows?!

mumofboys8787 · 20/07/2023 20:56

Chill out and let him play with the lego. You're creating a problem where there isn't one

NuffSaidSam · 20/07/2023 21:00

I wouldn't limit it within the house, but I would make sure he's getting out for at least a few hours a day.

Lego is great, but so is daylight, fresh air and exercise. Eye contact. Socialising. Speaking to people etc.

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warmmfeet · 20/07/2023 21:10

@mumofboys8787 agree thanks

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warmmfeet · 20/07/2023 21:11

@NuffSaidSam also agree! We do really get out most days.

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mathanxiety · 20/07/2023 21:32

Wait til he gets interested in Soviet artillery of WW2 Wink

MuggleMe · 20/07/2023 21:37

As long as he's getting fresh air and exercise, I'd let him get on with it.

warmmfeet · 20/07/2023 22:01

@mathanxiety haha that's niche!

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