Mil has been a nightmare since ds was born 14 months ago, she basically thought we were sharing custody of him with her in how much alone time she expected right from birth and when dp wouldn’t tell her no and left me to do it I became a massive issue to her. Fast forward to this last month or two and me and her had a major falling out, I wanted to state problems I had with stuff she had done but she just attacked me as a person. When I told her she won’t be getting ds up to babysit again due to concerns of her behaviour when alone with him (which has been passed on by her daughter and husband) she became real nasty telling me it’s her grandson and she’ll be getting him up whenever she wants. She then tried to get my mother on side and when she didn’t get the sympathy She wanted from her turned nasty on her as well. Her own family excuse her behaviour by saying she doesn’t realise what she’s doing but she is fully aware of her behaviour she has family manipulated through crocodile tears and huffs. I have no said I won’t be around her as shes quite a toxic person and have said dp can take ds up to see her once every two weeks. I know this has to happen but it annoys me so much inside when he takes ds up as I know in her head she thinks she’s winning as she doesn’t have to see me (the only person who ever put boundaries in place with her and ds, dp let’s her do what she wants) and she’s getting ds up to see her. I don’t really think I have a question just needed a rant and from anyone else in the same situation does it get any easier