I’ve posted many times before about my husband being completely useless. I can’t take it anymore. I just can’t. We just argued again. He didn’t set an alarm and forgot to drop our toddler off at childcare and I got mad because it’s not the first time. He’s absolutely useless in every way. The only thing he does is work and I’m surprised he is even able to keep his job with his attitude.
He only does a household task when I tell him 100 times and then he only does 1 or 2 little tasks and leaves everything to me (even when he’s at home for 1 or 2 months with no work. So I have to keep reminding him all day and then he tells me I’m annoying and just bitching.
Ive tried to tell him nicely, made a plan. He doesn’t even look at it.
All he does is make a mess and piss me off to no end. When I tell him I need more help he just ignores me and keeps playing games, sleeps or watches TV.
I hate him and I have no respect for him anymore.
The doctor has some concerns about his health because he is obese and he doesn’t care and keeps eating like a pig. Sweets, fatty foods and tells me I’m a shit cook for cooking healthy. Well I can’t give our baby the crap he eats.
I used to have pretty severe anxiety disorder and I recovered but it has come back. I have so much stress and anger in me that I constantly have health problems like headaches, tinnitus and stomach problems. My hands are shaking as I’m writing this.
I’ve given him many chances, talked to him a million times in the last years but he doesn’t change.
How can I divorce him and still make sure that I’m financially stable?
Please don’t tell me to stay. I can’t do this anymore.
If you’re a single mum please tell me what to expect