OP it’s easy to get stressed if you google side effects of vaccines. I did that and began to wonder if I shouldn’t give them to my baby, BUT then I googled the physical consequences of measles and whooping cough and diptheria and after seeing the images on google, I couldn’t get my baby vaccinated fast enough! I also strongly recommend the chicken pox jab, especially if you have a daughter. It’s optional in the UK and costs about £80, but it is a lot more pleasant for your child than having itchy pox under the eyelids and in the vulva. (It’s compulsory in America.)
Am currently sitting next to DH who is shivering and aching with covid (he didn’t have his covid booster when invited). DD and I are up to date with covid vaccines and have no symptoms.
Bottom line is, your baby is going to get exposed to some extremely nasty life-threatening diseases during his/her life, and you can choose to give vaccines or not, but the risks to your child of not being vaccinated are far higher than the risk of vaccine side effects.
My baby’s age 1 vaccination experience:
I held DD and told the nurse I would feed DD throughout. I then started to breastfeed. Nurse injected vaccine. DD let go of the breast and gave an angry squark. I offered the breast and DD instantly began to feed again. That afternoon and also the day after, she was much more sleepy than normal and had long naps. That was the only reaction.
My baby’s toddler vaccine experience (is this age 2 or 3? Can’t recall):
I sat DD on my lap and said there will be a little ouch and then you get a biscuit (which was then a rare treat). Nurse did the injection, DD shrieked, I gave DD a biscuit in one hand and a brand new toy she’d never seen before in the other. DD ate the biscuit and stared at the toy. No physical reaction at all.