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Too old to share a bath?

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Pinkfranny · 07/07/2023 07:37

Inspired by another thread it has got me thinking…at what age are siblings too old to share a bath?

My DS is almost 8 and DD is 3, they occasionally still share a bath and like playing together. They are always fully supervised.

I always ask them if they would like to share or have separate baths and respect their decision. I expected that my DS would perhaps soon start asking for a bath on his own but should I insist on solo baths already 🤷‍♀️

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Mummy08m · 07/07/2023 07:40

I think I'm old fashioned but for me it would depend if they're the same sex. If opposite sex I wouldn't be happy with that for my kids at a much younger age (I think probably when they start primary). If same sex, then no age limit as long as they're comfortable.

That's just my opinion though and I know I sit quite far along the old-fashioned/socially conservative end of the spectrum

Pkhsvd · 07/07/2023 07:40

I think that’s fine although I haven’t read the other thread on it. I’d take my cue from kids.

ChocHotolate · 07/07/2023 08:27

My 10 yr old will sometime bath with my 2 yr old if she wants him to, but he chooses to wear swimming trunks.

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CoalCraft · 07/07/2023 12:43

As long as both children are happy it's fine. With such a big age gap, especially, I can't see a problem. I wouldn't be worried about a three year old being naked around immediate family, regardless of the sexes involved.

riotlady · 07/07/2023 13:22

So long as they’re comfortable I’d say it’s fine. Presumably you’re there supervising so what’s the problem?

Himawarigirl · 07/07/2023 19:03

Take the lead from them, I feel it’s fine as long as they’re happy. For mine actually fitting in the bath together got to be an issue but also the older two stopped wanting/needing the routine of a nightly bath, so it tailed off naturally.

NPET · 07/08/2024 12:54

I think it depends on what your daughter wants. I guess @ 3 it's difficult but she'll express an opinion soon. Thinking about it, I wouldn't have wanted a boy to see me there, bro or not. But that's me!

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