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TV time - 6 year old

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Ollifer · 01/07/2023 07:36

Please don't flame me - I know I'm failing with this one.

I've always tried to limit screen time (my daughter doesn't have a tablet or anything we just have the TV), but recently screen time has become a bit of an increasing habit, and because I have been so snowed under with work and very stressed/exhausted I've let things slide.

So I always had a rule of no TV in the mornings but after school a film is fine. But then after one morning of giving in she now expects it every morning or else all hell breaks loose. I know the answer is to just stay firm and not give in but does anyone have any tried and tested methods to make this go a bit more smoothly with less tears and tantrums ???

It doesn't help that at her dad's she has a tablet and she's on it A LOT of the time.

I engage in a lot of play with her and she loves it at the time, but as soon as I go to do something else and she becomes a tiny bit bored she reverts straight back to asking to put the TV on.

Shes a really good kid, polite and on the whole well behaved. But I just need to crack this because I'm concerned it's a slippery slope and I know it damages their development and imagination etc.

Please help me - any advice very welcome even if a bit harsh !

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CherryLipgloss · 01/07/2023 07:39

Could you have a total amount of screen time per day? So it's up to her - she can watch TV in the morning if she likes but then there'll be less time left for after school?

Or a rule that she can only watch TV in the morning if she's 100% ready for school - so it can be an incentive for her to get ready!

Ollifer · 01/07/2023 07:52

Yeah I'm thinking of just giving the choice it's either before or after school. And I do currently make her get dressed and do her teeth before the TV can go on which again I think I've become lazy with it as it's a good way of her getting ready without any bother 😭 but then after school she's always so tired and just wants to slob out for an hour Infront of the TV so I think cutting mornings out completely is a better idea. I did it before for so long and I'm kicking myself that I let it slide

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Cheetahmum · 01/07/2023 07:56

For my kids it was about expectation setting and timetables. They knew what time they had tv and for how long and that was the end. Have to persevere a bit to get there but if you engage her in helping to create a schedule it might help.

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