Can i please get some advice? I am so fed up of my other half not doing what i have asked of him. I asked him not to vape in the car with our 4.5 month old daughter. And i catch him doing it. His response is " well its going out the window" so i get pissed off because he wouldn't do it with me in the car. I told him not to with our daughter in the car but he does it sneakily. I have said so many times not to do it. Now i cant let him be alone with our daughter in the car. And then there are things like. Dont put your finger in her mouth if its dirty. And he does it. So i get pissed and say clean your hands. He says oh sorry. Like he just doesnt think or pay attention. Its so frustrating! I just feel like i have watch everything he does and be a parent to him too to teach him these obvious things. And he doesn't just get it. I have to repeat it over and over again. I just cant trust him with our daughter. But am i being the ridiculous over the top one? It is so hard trying to build a family with someone i cant trust with our daughter.