He's taking our child (7) away to cornwall which is over 4hrs away from where we live i'm the resident parent, he has our child 2 nights a month and 2 half days a week alternate weekends so he doesnt have him alot at all.
He's taking him away with OW and her family, i haven't got a problem with that as such but she is always causing trouble and she hates me with a passion but theres nothing i can do about that. I just i don't trust him, he's not put our child first at all in the last 15 months and he shows no care or love towards him, he comes across as just going through the motions with him. She and her children have come first throughout.
I dont trust he will keep and eye on him. Alother issue i have is we are almost no contact, i can't even txt to ask how he is as he won't reply so while he is away there will be no contact between me and our child. This is bothering me and also i dont even now where he is taking him.
Im just really stuggling with not knowing where he is going, and the no contact. Its been me and our son for the last 15 months, ive been mum and dad to him, we've been through thick and thin, he's stuggled terrible since the seperation so not having him for a week is going to be incredibly hard.
My Son wants to go i should add but i don't think he realises i can't just go and get him if he decided he's had enough. But he says he wants to go and its his needs before my own.
I know he will have a good time but i just wish he wasn't going.
No idea why im posting, i just dont have anybody to talk to and im feeling sad.