My ex has been threatening to take me to court for a while now over child, however a week ago I lost my beloved dad and I am absolutely heart broken and I messaged BD to tell him so that maybe he could be there for DD he said he would but then 5 minutes later said I am still taking you to court, I had literally just told him I had just lost my dad and I am obviously going through a really bad time and he thinks it was acceptable to pile that onto me aswel, a week has past by he has shown no sympathy at all but be nasty to me, last night I told him it could be a while off before court as I am in bereavement I hope that he understands, the message he sent me back was giving me a load of abuse calling me a vile person and a vile mother at my most vulnerable time, like I am not going through enough to be taking this emotional abuse.