Hi all, think I need a place to vent and also some advice! I am a single parent to three girls who are 19, 16 and 8. 19 year old came home from uni last week. It’s been a rough few months - house sale fell through day before exchange and I can’t find a new buyer, my mum has started palliative chemo and I have fractured my arm. Since 19 year old came home, 16 year old has been AWFUL. Rude, ungrateful, disrespectful, demanding. She has ASD and I’ve tried to get alongside and acknowledge how hard the changes must be - sister coming home, school ending, college looming but nothing seems to work. Whenever I say no to anything, she loses it. She screamed at me for an hour today - said she no longer needs parents and I’m ruining her life - this is prom weekend where I’ve spent hundreds of pounds on dress, shoes, bag, nails and bought her a gig ticket for tomorrow night at the O2 and I’m taking her and a friend there and back. She hasn’t acknowledged any of it just furious because I said she couldn’t stay over at a party tonight (she was out last night, we are leaving for London early tomorrow and I offered to pick her up at 11pm tonight). I’m trying to keep a sense of humour and remember how awful I was at that age, but today my 19 year old said she’s hating being home and it’s making her feel overwhelmed and anxious because of her sisters behaviour, which makes me so sad. Everything is just really getting on top of me.