Sorry it’s a long one 😬
I have 3 children, 11,8 & 3. DC2 has just had their assessment with CAMHS after 6 years of me fighting with every service in the county to get them to help and being told “it’s not our remit”.
However, now I’ve got answers for them, I’m now struggling with what is ‘normal’ and what isn’t in terms of my other children. I’ve been so focused on helping my middle child who outwardly really struggled and now my youngest son who also now isn’t easy either I think I may have missed my eldest child’s difficulties due to masking,
I had DC1 at 19, and Ive never really been around other parents/children long enough to notice similarities or differences. None of my children were “typical” children but I brushed it off by it being their quirks. Can any one advise if it’s something looks a miss 🙈 or if I’m simply loosing my mind now this mess with DC2 is over