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Feeling sad that lockdown could’ve impacted toddler’s health

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DR91 · 08/06/2023 20:04

I’ve got myself into a bit of a panic, I started listening to a podcast about the prevalence of different allergies and serious illnesses in the western world and reasons for the recent dramatic increases.

It basically went onto say a whole host of reasons but talked a lot about c section babies being at higher risk and also parents providing a ‘too clean’ environment in the first few months life. My baby was transverse at 40 weeks, c section was literally my only option, he was born one week into the first lockdown, he wasn’t held by another human for four months.

I did worry about this at the time, but obviously Covid was so unknown in the beginning it was like being stuck between a rock and a hard place. We just followed the guidelines.

I know there was literally nothing I could do here for either situation, but I’m feeling really guilty, I know I’m being irrational in a way but I feel like he just didn’t get the best start in life at all due to decisions ultimately I made. There’s also a bonus risk of family history of eczema and hayfever that we can tick off. Sigh.

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GoalShooter · 08/06/2023 20:09

I was raised in a very clean hygienic household, because my dad is asthmatic (allergic to dust) and my mum was a nurse (super careful about germs). For example shoes were never worn inside and we never had the "5 second rule" if you dropped a fork on the floor - you'd get a clean fork.

I am never ill - I've had half a day off work sick in the past 18 years - I have an excellent immune system. So I don't really agree with the exposure to germs thing. It's a theory but I'm not sure there's much evidence behind it.

MrsSamR · 08/06/2023 20:17

In the nicest possible way, I think you're spiralling a bit here! My daughter was born in May 2020 via c-section and bottle fed. Yes she did get ill quite a lot when she started nursery at 1 but since then is pretty much the healthiest child you could ever meet. No allergies, asthma, skin problems and barely gets ill. Please don't worry about it.

Tryingtoconceivenumber2 · 08/06/2023 20:27

I also had a lockdown baby, April 2020 so probs a week or two after you. I have also worried about things like this especially her immunity as she seems to pick up everything now she's at school but I just try to think of the positives we also got.

Totally uninterrupted time with out new baby with time to try and get to grips with breast feeding without visitors.

My DH working from home so seeing her more being able to support me more.

Returning to work when jobs had become more flexible and working from home so again see her more than I would have previously.

Obviously there were downsides but I think there's not too much point reflecting on these as we couldn't have done anything to change the situation x

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