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Dealing with a narcissist baby dad and being taking to court

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Babygirlmum · 31/05/2023 18:20

What chance does my ex stand taking me to court and what should I expect, let me cut a very long story short he walked away before I had DD and did not want to be a part of her life and was quite mentally abusive during my pregnancy towards me, when she was 5 months old he came back into her life after loads of disagreements and child maintenance being involved, I can not trust him he is very inconsistent and says he can't have her in his own, I used to meet him with her but that no longer works, he is very manipulative towards me and always wants to know what I am up too and things I have to and if I have been with other men, turning nasty if I say something he does not want to hear and then says I seem like I want him back, because I will not let DD stay over at his bare in mind it was a long distance relationship and he lives nearly two hours from me, he now wants to take me to court because me and him can't get along and we disagree all the time, he never asks aboht her progress all well-being he doesn't ask about anything about DD but will ask crazy questions about me witch I will not mention but use you're imagination, he wants to take me to court and I don't know what to expect or how it will plan out, I have nothing but problems with him and he is n out a consistent or caring dad and he always involves his mother and I feel like he is doing it for her mother and not himself because she wants a relationship with DD after telling me to get an abortion at 6 months pregnant as baby dad wanted nothing to do with baby.

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Chowtime · 31/05/2023 18:22

First things first.

Ex what?

TheShellBeach · 31/05/2023 18:25

He sounds awful, OP.
He's just pretending to want contact with the baby so that he can check up on you.

Babygirlmum · 31/05/2023 19:42

@Chowtime ex partner and baby dad. @TheShellBeach do you think that's what he is about?

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TheShellBeach · 31/05/2023 19:44

Babygirlmum · 31/05/2023 19:42

@Chowtime ex partner and baby dad. @TheShellBeach do you think that's what he is about?

Yes.
I also think you should ask MN to move this thread to Relationships. You'll get more answers.
Just report your own OP and ask them to move it.

Smallyellowbird · 31/05/2023 20:29

I would suggest mediation, worked well for me in a similar situation. He's unlikely to engage as he doesn't sound that interested, but it means you're showing willing and will be in your favour if it does go to court.

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