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Which would you attempt first?

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deliwoman1 · 28/05/2023 13:58

DD is 11 months and over the next few months we're hoping to try some or all of the following: wean off the dummy, take her milk from a cup, and cut out the boob altogether. I'm conscious of not overwhelming her with change, but not sure where's best to start. Here's some info about DD:

She's not too much of a dummy monster and actually didn't have one at all until she was five months (doesn't wake up if it falls out, doesn't really ask for it, but it seems to help with teething), so I don't think it'll be brutal. But she is due to move from her childminder one day a week, to nursery for three days a week, very soon, so it'll be useful for that.

She likes her bottle but I'd like to transition her to taking her milk from a cup though. Unbelievably she's still totally toothless, so I figure we may as well move on to cups exclusively before tooth decay is a thing, and I think the nursery like it that way. She's fine with water from a sippy cup and drinks independently. We bought the same sippy cup in a different colour the other day but she outright rejected her milk from it!

We're down to one breastfeed a day, maybe a couple more if she's ill. I'll be sorry to stop altogether really, but DP and I are planning a second child v soon. Not keen on breastfeeding while pregnant (due to my tiredness, sickness etc), and I don't want to tandem feed a toddler and a newborn, so it just seems smart to cut it well before new baby so DD has lots of time to adjust?

I'm curious, if you were me, which would you attempt first and why? Thanks!

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BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 28/05/2023 14:02

I'd leave the dummy in the cot. That way she can keep it for sleeps only. Tackle this later down the line. Tell nursery dummy is for naps only.

Start doing daytime milks in sippy cups now with a bottle / bf morning and evening. If she doesn't seem to take to the sippy cup yet do another bf/bottle before her main nap. Maybe just aim to drop bf when you get the positive test. She can have cowsmilk from 12m for her main milk drinks so may be happy to have a different flavour of milk to her usual BF from the sippy cups.

poppyalert · 28/05/2023 14:32

Agree with PP about the dummy, if she's not that bothered then leave it for nap time only.
For the cup, transition to one of those cups with a silicon spout, it's halfway between a supply cup and bottle then you can move to a sippy cup and eventually a cup. Nursery will help with this as they encourage using cups.
For breastfeeding, if it's only one feed at a particular time, can your husband take over this feed until supply has gone? As you enjoy this I would maybe tackle the other stuff first and then the breastfeeding

deliwoman1 · 30/05/2023 08:34

Thanks, this is really helpful!

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