i have a wonderful 4yr old and now a 9wk old baby. With my first I had the routine down - naps, play, baths and bedtime. But now I’m thrown with my 9wk old. Everyone said ‘oh the 2nd is so much easier, they just fit in’. But the thing is, he doesn’t. I feel awful because he wants to sleep when I have to get my boy to nursery so he inevitably gets woken up getting in and out of the car and gets broken sleep. Then I struggle to get him to sleep in the day. And even sometimes in the pram waking to and from picking my boy up from nursery. He’s usually screaming during dinner and so I never eat a meal without him being on me screaming and pulling my hair (by the way I should add I feed him before our dinner). And then comes bath time. I bath them together and have tried just doing it at the usual time, putting my boy into bed first and when that didn’t work for my baby, I tried bathing them both early and letting my boy play in his room while I try to get the baby down to sleep. Which doesn’t work either! I honestly wonder how people manage??? Is it just us or is this normal? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!