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Tsao · 08/05/2023 23:33

Looking for some advice please about what I should do.

I am a father of 2 although I only planned on having 1 being totally honest
Please note I have had a vasectomy since

When we had our first child my wife agreed to go back onto the pill and I thought nothing about it after it had worked for 12 years
However she caught on and I pretended I was really happy however almost 1 year after my second child was born I am really struggling to find the bond and its killing me
Has any other people experienced this and if so what did they do? Should I seek professional help and if so how did you go about it
I know it seems like a touchy subject but I would like to know if anyone else has had this issue
Thanks

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jacquec · 09/05/2023 07:30

What do you think the source of the difficulty is? What feelings is your second child bringing up? I don't think you need professional help from the off, you probably just need to do some digging within yourself to get to the root cause. Happy for you to PM to discuss further.

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