What do i do??

GrazingSheep · 01/05/2023 19:57

Just leave him.
No point in wasting the rest of your life with him.

Aquamarine1029 · 01/05/2023 19:59

Get this loser away from your kids. There is nothing to fix here, this man is a lost cause.

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CarolineD1983 · 01/05/2023 20:08

GrazingSheep · 01/05/2023 19:57

Just leave him.
No point in wasting the rest of your life with him.

Thank you for the advice ,everytime I throw him out he begs pleads me take him back says how much he loves me

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CarolineD1983 · 01/05/2023 20:09

Aquamarine1029 · 01/05/2023 19:59

Get this loser away from your kids. There is nothing to fix here, this man is a lost cause.

Thanks for the advice appreciate it ,never thought id be in situation like this

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kirsty2023 · 01/05/2023 20:15

CarolineD1983 · 01/05/2023 19:50

Sorry this is going to be long winded.so myself & oh have been having issues for a good while now. I feel like I'm trying to control him or something. A lot of the time his drinking has caused problems, xmas week he came home drunk fell into TV & smashed it, new,year day went to friend house fell in the front door drunk (we,have 2 small,children 5 year & 1 year ), got arrested twice since January this year for being drunk, our son was in hospital 2 weeks ago um well for a week & the day he came home took his money out the house (knowing I wasn't paid my wage for few,day) & went off with his mates, carries stories to his mother with yards added on make me look like I said things,,the lying as well & then there latest some woman liking all our children picture's and pictores of him on social media whom he wasn't friends with until few days ago when we had an argument told,him to leave .....am I mad to try work things out with him ?? Is it me? Am I too controlling asking him not to drink cos,only ever problems ??

He's sounds like a right ass kick him out don't let him back so much better for u and ur 2 kids to be alone than have him around hope u are ok

Iminthemoneylife · 01/05/2023 20:16

He doesn’t love you. He loves alcohol.

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CarolineD1983 · 01/05/2023 20:49

kirsty2023 · 01/05/2023 20:15

He's sounds like a right ass kick him out don't let him back so much better for u and ur 2 kids to be alone than have him around hope u are ok

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I'm ok just sad I ended up in this situation thank you

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CarolineD1983 · 01/05/2023 20:50

Iminthemoneylife · 01/05/2023 20:16

He doesn’t love you. He loves alcohol.

If he would at least try to change 😪 omg I sound so sad don't I 🫣

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kirsty2023 · 01/05/2023 21:05

No u don't sound sad at all it's ur choice at the end of the day but u have to think about ur self and ur 2 kiddies what's best for you 3 it's hard but u can do it on your own girl power I'm glad u are ok chin up keep strong 🌈

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CarolineD1983 · 01/05/2023 21:20

kirsty2023 · 01/05/2023 21:05

No u don't sound sad at all it's ur choice at the end of the day but u have to think about ur self and ur 2 kiddies what's best for you 3 it's hard but u can do it on your own girl power I'm glad u are ok chin up keep strong 🌈

Thank Hun 💕💕💕

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kirsty2023 · 01/05/2023 21:32

Ur welcome woman have to stick together I'm always here for a chat if u need

wildfirewonder · 01/05/2023 21:33

CarolineD1983 · 01/05/2023 20:08

Thank you for the advice ,everytime I throw him out he begs pleads me take him back says how much he loves me

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Just say no?

I'm sure he does love you, but he's a major problem drinker.

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CarolineD1983 · 01/05/2023 21:44

kirsty2023 · 01/05/2023 21:32

Ur welcome woman have to stick together I'm always here for a chat if u need

Thank you so much I really appreciate that ❤

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CarolineD1983 · 01/05/2023 21:45

wildfirewonder · 01/05/2023 21:33

Just say no?

I'm sure he does love you, but he's a major problem drinker.

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Yea drinking & lying were always the main issue -spose they go hand in hand don't they

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Sweet89 · 01/05/2023 22:38

I mean, is that what you want for yourself and your children? That isn't a good role model for your young children.
My dad was very much like this when I was a child, and I will never forget the states he would come home in. Not pleasant memories. I would personally give him an ultimatum. Surely you want better for your kids? I certainly wouldn't want/allow that around my kids.

kirsty2023 · 01/05/2023 22:47

Sweet89 · 01/05/2023 22:38

I mean, is that what you want for yourself and your children? That isn't a good role model for your young children.
My dad was very much like this when I was a child, and I will never forget the states he would come home in. Not pleasant memories. I would personally give him an ultimatum. Surely you want better for your kids? I certainly wouldn't want/allow that around my kids.

She's asking for advice not to be judged it's her choice people are to quick to jump on people theses days

Sweet89 · 01/05/2023 22:59

kirsty2023 · 01/05/2023 22:47

She's asking for advice not to be judged it's her choice people are to quick to jump on people theses days

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Well, here's my advice. Leave the waste of space because he clearly doesn't give a flying fuck about his family if he's taking the money to get pissed after his child gets out of hospital. Sick

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CarolineD1983 · 02/05/2023 07:28

Sweet89 · 01/05/2023 22:38

I mean, is that what you want for yourself and your children? That isn't a good role model for your young children.
My dad was very much like this when I was a child, and I will never forget the states he would come home in. Not pleasant memories. I would personally give him an ultimatum. Surely you want better for your kids? I certainly wouldn't want/allow that around my kids.

Thanks for your input I appreciate it

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