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Baby bottle refusal

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Lavender14 · 29/04/2023 12:18

Hi all, just wondering if anyone else has come across this and how you managed it!

I have a 5 month old who's ebf but will take the odd bottle of expressed milk from dad no bother.
I tried leaving him for the first time with my parents and they took him up the road to a garden centre for lunch for a few hours. Apparently he was more than happy, took a great nap and was all smiles until they produced a bottle. Then he had a complete meltdown, refused the bottle and wouldn't calm down. I had to go up and feed him myself and he was more than happy to feed hungrily from the breast and then was back to all smiles for everyone. We're meant to be going to a wedding reception next week and his other grandparents would have been giving a bottle and now I'm really worried he might not take it for them. I also appreciated that my folks rang me to say they were struggling rather than letting him cry, whereas I know my in laws (with the best of intentions) haven't contacted my sil or bil when my nephew has been inconsolable because they didn't want to bother them and didn't want them to feel like they couldn't leave him again. Any advice on this? He took two bottles for his dad the night before while I was at the hairdresser no bother.

I'm very tempted to send dh on to the wedding reception himself and stay with baby?

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RedRobyn2021 · 29/04/2023 13:04

Can he be fed with a cup?

Getting a baby to take a bottle is a patience game, always be gentle, never push it on them, just gentle offering.

Alternatively, can't you just being him with you?

RedRobyn2021 · 29/04/2023 13:05

That was meant to say bring him with you*

DragonbornMum · 29/04/2023 14:37

My son never accepted a bottle, but did very well with a cup. Free flow is best (ie not anti-spill)

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Lavender14 · 29/04/2023 17:11

RedRobyn2021 · 29/04/2023 13:05

That was meant to say bring him with you*

Unfortunately not, we did ask if we could bring him since he wouldn't require a seat etc and they said no which is fair enough. We could try him with a cup. I'm just a bit worried it's the person rather than the method if that makes sense. He has a tongue tie which we're waiting to get released - anyone know if that would cause an issue for drinking from a cup?

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SiouxsieSiouxStiletto · 29/04/2023 19:02

Both of mine were bottle refusers but would take enmity from a cup if I wasn't there, begrudgingly.

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