Single parenting and free time

[Ducksinarow1987]

I've done everything with my son since he was born, partner mostly just indifferent.

Now that we are separated, we will have separate time with him and I feeling so daunted about my time on my own.

I'm going to miss him so much and wonder what I'll do with myself? Has anyone else felt like this? What did you do with your time?

Sleep, caught up on stuff I had neglected, you will be fine.

My youngest was 1.5 years old when I separated from my husband and I honestly struggled not having the kids with me at first because like you I did everything for them and he just picked and choose moments to be around. But to be honest after a few weeks I grew to enjoy the time to myself. I started meeting up with friends and going for lunch/walks etc and enjoying the peace and quiet. Also time to catch up on things you need to do round the house etc in your own sweet time! As long as the kids are in safe hands with your ex. You've got to remember that they are having fun and making memories with their dad so you shouldn't feel guilty for taking the time to do whatever makes you happy