He thinks he is because I’m in his words I’m being frustrating and playing the victim card (I’m just asking him a question).
Yesterday I asked how long he was going to be because we had to get to a family thing and he said very angrily “I don’t know” and walked off we were supposed to be there in ten minutes and he said I ambushed him when I asked how long he was going to be . When I said “do you want me to drop the kids off and I am come back and get you?” He very angrily said “no I want to do this and then leave” but wouldn’t give me a time frame.
I can’t help it I burst into tears and could t go because I can stand being treated this way. I fell into a major depression all day.
today we are leaving to go away I’m have a chronic condition and needed to go to the chemist before we left. My daughter wanted to go early. My husband said there’s probably one along the way. And I said I don’t know if they’ll be open and I know this one will be. Maybe look it up
I’ll be in a lot of pain if I don’t get my medication. I asked if he found the website but he said they don’t have trading hours but something would be open along the way. He kept going on and on about how there’s probably one open and I felt like I kept having to defend my decision to leave a bit later.
I finally said “so you want to put our daughters needs of wanting to leave slightly earlier before my needs of not being in pain?” I see know it was a narky question but I said it calmly. It also stems from him actually putting our kids first all the time. I don’t get birthday presents from him. My daughters get thing like go pros and $1000 birthday parties.
he just started yelling and swearing at me and when I said don’t talk to me like that he said he can talk to me how he wants, I’m the problem and he’s sick of it. He also said he didn’t say any of those things literally two minute after I said they and I’m irrational. I know what he said.
again im crying i can’t stop I said I can’t do this anymore which again he just responded angrily to. He doesn’t give a shit but expects to just leave like everything’s fine. I don’t want to ruin my kids holiday but I also don’t want to be stuck with his aggression. He can’t leave without me because he has to work on the holiday otherwise he would.