Ok... Opinions ladies. My ex and me do not get along. He is emotional and verbally abusive and was throughout are relationship with me and our kids. Our oldest is now a teen and will not even speak to him. Our two younger ones still have a relationship with him. Just abit of background.
So, his new gf has major boundary issues and I have had to tell her a couple times to just kind of know her place and I did ask that she stop trying to assert herself into my life as I barely have a relationship with my ex. Example.. one day she walked right into my house without knocking, when I'm on the phone with my kids when they are at their dads she will talk over me on the phone and tell them what to say, she has told my kids to call her kids brothers/sisters. Just not normal and way to soon.
Anyway to the point... The soccer club called me to let me know she had contacted them about my kids asking that they be switched soccer teams. My kids!? I know the issue of which team they are on isn't a big deal. But the fact she thinks she can contact any organization about my kids and start dictating things got me soo mad.
What are your thoughts? I feel it's crossing another boundary and not being respectful at all to me. Like I've asked her multiple times to watch her boundaries. I've explained to her my ex and I don't get along and due to his continued emotional/verbal abuse I have to limit contact to protect myself and that means subsequently limiting contact with her. I had nothing against her until she continued to disrespect my boundaries. But her calling their soccer club just had my anxiety through the roof. I don't think it's her place at all.