Hi everyone, I really don't like airing my dirty laundry on a public forum but I'm at a loss for what to do in this situation and I can't sleep...
Separated from my husband 9 months ago, we have an 8 year old son. Up until this evening we have been very amicable and co parenting well. He has a new girlfriend of around 8 weeks , he asked me if my son could meet her , I wasn't happy about it as seems very quick and it didn't help that I found out he had already told my son about her and meeting her before even talking to me. Obviously I was furious but we talked it through, to keep things calm for son and I gave him my blessing.
I've just found out (again, through my 8 year old son) he is not only allowing the new girlfriend to meet him but shes staying overnight the whole weekend with him , in our marital home.
I'm so upset , this is just screaming red flags to me and is just too much too soon. I've told my ex I'm not happy and he basically says - tough luck it's happening.
Where do I stand in this? Do I have any rights as his mother or do I just have to sit back and allow it to happen?
Sorry for the long post, not sure if anyone has any advice... I will be talking to a solicitor tomorrow as he now seems to think because I'm the one who moved out of the family home I've now got no rights to it and has basically moved her in.
Never thought it would get this messy, I'm devastated 😩