I have been with my husband for almost 6 years and we have a 10 month old son. Particularly in the last year and a half my relationship with my husband's parents has gotten very bad to the point that it is uncomfortable for us to even be in the same room. No one particular fight or issue, we just fundamentally dislike each other and it is getting very hard to ignore. My husband is incredibly close with his family and they live very close to us so avoiding them is difficult though I try to avoid spending time with them if possible. Although I don't think we will ever like each other due to again, fundamental differences between us, I'm wondering if anyone has any advice for improving in law relationships and getting them to a place where we can be cordial. My in laws have a very immature victim mentality so I doubt they would ever take steps on their end to improve things, but for my sanity I would like to do what I can to improve things.