everytime i say anything about my dd,my mother says something about her fav gc, my newphew
and tbh im finding it pretty upsetting
yes mum always favoured on of her three and now there child is the fav grandson
he is almost 2 my dd is 7 months
anytime i ever say anything
she always brings the conversation round to fav gc
she has 6 btw
and never mentions the others
for example even the other day i say oh [dd, only just got a tooth] oh dd really liked having her teth brushed she would say say x loves having his brushed too
even i say say negative things like im a bit shattered today dd hasnt had a nap allday she would say well x always had a nap everyday
never ever mentioning the other gc
just the fav one
its like she never responds to anything i say about my dd, just turns the conversation around to her fav gc
and because hes older i hear all the oh x has learnt how to this or that, and i nicely reply with things like oh thats good or great or say how well hes doing
but anytime i say anything about dd she always turns it around it her fav gc
what would you do?
just be nice if one in a blue moon i said something like, oh dd got on well with having her tooth brushed, she even liked it
my mum could just say oh thats good isnt it or whatever
without having to constantly bring heer fav gc into it