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Edinburghgirl2 · 19/02/2023 12:14

So my daughter's dad hasn't been in her life since before her birth. We hadn't heard from him in years. He's not on the birth certificate. He's suddenly appeared with a lawyer, wanting to get access.
He has a partner that he's been with since before my daughter was born and this partner has a 19 year old daughter (who has a toddler herself). This daughter doesn't live with them but is around alot. My problem is that she sells photos/videos of herself online on a well known site. I've seen some of these and she often has a lot of her baby stuff in the background of her photos. This concerns me as that could attract the wrong sort to her site and to her. I'm wondering if it would be valid for me to bring this up to my lawyer? I'm maybe being silly here but I'm just concerned about what type of people my daughter could be exposed to if he manages to get access.

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Birdsbirdsbirds · 19/02/2023 12:54

I don't think a judge would care, considering she doesn't live there?

PeekAtYou · 19/02/2023 12:58

I assume you mean something like Only Fans.

A judge wouldn't be bothered. Social Services might be interested in children in any indecent images but won't care that there's a highchair or whatever in the background

Edinburghgirl2 · 20/02/2023 16:25

Thanks everyone. I just wasn't sure if it was worth mentioning

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Quitelikeit · 20/02/2023 16:32

How old is your child?

I don’t think what her daughter does is going to be relevant to the court case

Why do you want to go to court?

You know he could get more access that way

Edinburghgirl2 · 20/02/2023 16:37

I don't want it to go to court, I'd be happier to work something out between us but

  1. I have a court ordered restraining order against him as he was found guilty of DA
  2. He's a very difficult person anyway and will take it through court just because he has the finances and time to do that.
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