Hi, advice needed. I'm at my absolute wits end with my husband.
My husband has become such a worrier since our daughter was born almost 4 years ago and has become unbearable since our second daughter was born 3 months ago.
I don't even really know where to start my brain is completely frazzled and I'm struggling to be around him. He doesn't talk about much other than Illnesses or potential illnesses with the kids, every cough is a chest infection everything is the worst case scenario, when it isn't.
He Googles everything which always gives him the worst outcomes and feeds his worry.
I've tried talking to him because it's rubbing off on my eldest and making her think there's always something wrong with her, this isn't how I want to raise her, I want her to be strong and resilient.
Having conversations with him works for a day or two but then he's right back to it..
Hes doing it with his own "symptoms" now. I cannot cope with this anymore, I'm losing my mind. I want my fun, sexy husband back.
It's gotten so bad that the other week when my youngest was projectile vomitting (only once a day) for a few days after her routine vaccines and my husband was yet again googling and thinking the worst despite me telling him that it was normal and that the Dr's had also told me as much he would not accept it, to the point that I didn't want to feed my daughter with him around just incase she spat up afterwards and i would have to deal with him stressing again.
He doesn't react well when I don't agree with him or see eye to eye instead I'm uncaring and being dramatic. Although I'm the one home with the kids all day, I take bloody good care of them and I'm extremely caring. In my eyes I'm just rational.
Hes making me crazy, does anyone have any experience with this??