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Changing daycares, attending two different daycares?

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orangehour · 08/02/2023 03:29

Hello! Looking for some honest advice here. My 3.5 year old DD1 has attended the same daycare since she was 18 months old. While I can’t say she’s crazy about it, she has good friends there. Things have been tricky lately as most of her friends are doing some days of kinder now at a different facility but my daughter was to young to meet the age requirement this year. She feels quite left behind.

The daycare is a long way on foot and takes me an hour return (I don’t drive and learning now would be a good idea but won’t help in the short term. I already feel very ashamed about this).

I now need to plan for my DD2 to start daycare in a month or so (she’s 5.5 months). There is a daycare just a couple of blocks from my house - it’s very small and peaceful and I think would be a good fit for her. But it would offer less educationally to my older child.

So, do I put both my daughters into this small, nearby daycare and get all the drop-off time back in my day? Do I send my DD1 to two different daycares so she can still see her friends two days a week? I’m tearing myself to bits over the decision!

Sorry for the lengthy question.

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HappyHolidays22 · 08/02/2023 03:45

Hi OP! I’m kind of glad to read your post as I am also having a really similar stress at the minute re my youngest and where to send them. I’ve promised the nurseries I will make a decision today and let them know…. It’s so hard to know what to do for the best!

IMO if it is easier for you to send both your children to the local nursery, I would do that. It sounds like your eldest child is already missing some of her friends and, as you say, isn’t crazy about the daycare she is at. It might be a nice change for her to be with her sibling (assuming they would be together in this new local place?)

xxx

SaltnPeppaPig · 08/02/2023 03:49

I moved my older DCs when they were just over 3 and they were absolutely fine, didn't look back. We've had play dates since with a couple of the kids they really got on with.

So I'd definitely move to the nearer one. I don't really know what you want educationally for a 3 year old though. It's just playing!

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