I’m driving myself nuts my husband is great but the other day I found a message between him and a female saying he would pay for hotel and £100 and she was saying she would come up when she passed her driving test. I asked my husband about it and he said he was joking and was asking for baby sitters cos we had a bad night with the baby. I’m worried because we haven’t had sex in years and I feel guilty about it all the time (we have been undergoing fertility treatment) I’m 44 and been to the doctor many times about it and he shrugged his shoulders and said what do you want me to do about it. I have no sex drive I love my husband very much and just feel like I am always wrong and that my way is never right. I ask him to help but he never does and when he does he fains illness and cries off half way through a job. He won’t let me cook and has claimed the kitchen for himself but there is always stuff on the side and when I go in there to tidy he gets all edgy. When I cook he doesn’t eat it and claims he doesn’t like it we don’t eat many vegetables because he doesn’t like em and can not eat them.
I’m feeling like I’m going to have to go for mental health treatment after having our long awaited baby. I’m still bleeding and recovering after my c section and loosing soo much blood during the delivery.