DD just turned 3yo 2 months ago. She has been an absolute nightmare during the night. She wakes anywhere between 1-5 times saying she need a pee. Sometimes she'll pee 3 times a night, sometimes just saying it because she's had a nightmare, sometimes I think its just separation anxiety. She has had multiple ear infections over the last few months and I read peeing more during the night is a symptom but she's just finished a dose of antibiotics! I limited fluids after 5pm and her bedtime is 7pm. She's completely potty trained and has been out of nappies for some months now. I've tried putting a potty in her room and telling her to go herself but she refuses to and shouts until someone comes to help her. She has 2 night lights and they still don't help. I've tried limiting what she's watching on TV re nightmares. She's had a lot of change recently. I have a 6mo who she very much loves and love seems normal now. She just had some settle in days at nursery last week (she found drop off hard but was happy on pick up, head to toe in glitter and chatting away about everything she did). She starts x3 afternoons next week.
My question is WTAF am I supposed to do about the night wakings? Our house isn't big and if I leave her to shout she'll wake the baby and probably our neighbours. She refuses to go to the potty and is using having an accident as a power game. I am at my wits end. It's at a point where its causing problems between me and DH. Everyone is exhausted, everyone is miserable, what do I do???