I am so confused 2 weeks ago me and my mum fell out, she takes my youngest daughter to school I pay her every month she had told me the day before to bring to tights I had forgotten them she actually wasn’t to bad about it I beat myself up as it was cold, I explained to her I had so much to do in my daily routine that sometimes I feel like I am sinking her response was so does everyone, and I responded with you don’t with that I could tell she was furious, she always say’s thing to me like your unorganised and this and that she regularly put me down, my mum has never worked when my dad left us she become abusive she would say terrible thing’s about me and my sibling to anyone who would listen, she never cleaned the house ever I could never bring friends home. I never use this against her or mentioned it the way I see it she did her best and who am into judge I wasn’t in her predicament, now I on the other hand I hold down a full time job have 2 children the oldest is a teenager and the youngest is autistic so you can imagine quite difficult and I clean my house, so back to the situation I came to collect my daughter after work and my mum was really rude and moody to the point I had no other option but to confront the situation so I asked her why are you being so rude she started screaming in my face because you horrible am this am that I couldn’t hear half of what she was saying she had gone bright red and screaming terrible things about me, I didn’t raise my voice at first and said am not horrible you are and all you do this scream how terrible me and my sibling are ( by the way my mum lives with my stepdad he pays for everything the home they own is all his she has never contributed to the house she smokes drugs everyday and drink a bottle of wine and plays online gambling) with that I said I no longer want to talk to you she the screamed back yeh get fuck of out my house and I am not taking your fucking kids to school, this left me in a terrible situation I had to contact work drop hours until I could find alternative childcare break my autistic daughter out of her routine, this was all 2 weeks before Christmas so I had to find the initial set up charge for a month childcare with was around £400, so with that we have not spoke since as she wants apology from me? My family (obvs my mum was now not coming)was supposed to come Boxing Day I couldn’t really afford it but I got food anyway on the actual day they rang me and said we are not coming we don’t want to get involved we seen your kids yesterday at your mums (I allowed them over on Christmas) so basically what I am asking is am I in the Wong?