Me and ex partner spilt about 2 months ago when our little boy was 5 months old.. I don’t even know where to start why we split up but he’s very Narcissistic and manipulative towards me.. I’ve spent the last 2 months heartbroken by what has happened and he still is constantly wrecking my head when I have our little boy to look after on my own..
I let him see our son in the week and he has few hours on a Sunday with him..
I don’t have problem with him spending time with our son but he doesn’t come the times he has agreed and he constantly keeps me sat waiting hours after the time he has said.. (when I need to sort my son for bedtime)
I don’t want him to have him overnight as he’s too young and I’m still breastfeeding.. he still wakes a lot in the night and I’d like him to have routines and feel secure with me, He keeps saying soon he can have him overnight but I don’t want that yet!
My ex is constantly wrecking my head and making out I’m crazy he rings me and says things and acts ways to provoke and upsets me and then makes little comment like he’s recording me and writing things down like he’s going to use things against me to take my son!
He will watch me sob and react because of things he has said or done and doesn’t care in the slightest he will watch me and act calm like I’m just being crazy!
I’ve done nothing but try my very best for our son to be the best mum I can be! I’ve done it all on my own so far and he’s breaking me down!
He has a child from a previous relationship the child’s mum had a break down, is an alcoholic and suffers with her mental health and due to this she is not allowed to see her daughter.. (This could be partly because of him I don’t know)
I don’t know what to do with him I can’t get away from him because of our son.. hes 33 and im 25 he just feels like a bully he didn’t used to be like this at the beginning.. I’m not sure what is going to happen I just want to feel strong and well for my boy so I can be the best I can for him..