Can someone please help??
I Co-parent with my ex partner and have shared custody of my children. Both children always scream and cry to go back to their other parent’s house, begging not to be taken back. There have been multiple social services incidents at their other parents house also but nothing has ever come of it due to lack of evidence. My youngest child (5 ) has been exhibiting very disturbing behaviour for the past few years. I’ve tried everything to make my child’s other parent see that our child is unhappy but she won’t listen. Our 5 year old purposely makes themself sick, wets themself, poops on the floor while at their other parent’s. They are also aggressive, hit, scream and say they hate the other parent. Whereas at our house, they are well behaved, so affectionate and loving. They seem so happy with us. They often mention not feeling loved at their other parent’s. Ive also kept a log over the past 3 years of all of the disturbing incidents that have occurred at their other parent’s. I’ve tried social services, citizens advice but don’t feel listened to. I’ve gone to a solicitor but don’t have the money to pay for their fees. Please help, I am so concerned for my child’s well-being. It’s becoming disturbing and getting progressively worse. What do I do?