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Should we get tongue tie cut?

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Moonshine160 · 04/12/2022 21:31

DS is 12 weeks old and has reflux type symptoms since birth and always had a shallow latch. He has also been a really gassy baby from taking in air when feeding. He is breastfed. Reflux medication didn’t really help. He has always fussed at the breast, latching on and off. We were told by the midwife, GP and health visitor that he doesn’t have a tongue tie, but they never seemed to properly look or feel in his mouth. I still wasn’t convinced so paid to see a lactation consultant who is also a tongue tie practitioner who confirmed that he has a posterior tongue tie.

We are booked in to have the tongue tie released on Tuesday, it’s going to cost £120 so not too much but also not ideal right before Christmas. Over the last couple of weeks his feeding has significantly improved and he is less gassy. His latch is still quite shallow and we still have some breast fussiness. The consultant told us that the tie is only a subtle one and she can’t guarantee that that’s what’s causing the fussiness and his latch may still be shallow if it’s released.

I have until 11am tomorrow to cancel the appointment without losing my 50% deposit. Is it worth having it done? I don’t want to cause him any pain or discomfort unnecessarily if it might not actually make any difference at all.

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Peanutbutterislife · 03/12/2024 13:13

@Moonshine160 thanks for letting me know! That’s what I’m wondering. Did the wind ease up quite soon after? It could very well be the same here just developmental. In two minds…was breastfeeding still ok? So worried he’ll just stop being able to latch at all if we have it done.

MotherJessAndKittens · 03/12/2024 13:18

Niece had same. Took minutes to do and straight onto breast. No crying. Made huge difference to her latching.

Moonshine160 · 03/12/2024 17:18

Peanutbutterislife · 03/12/2024 13:13

@Moonshine160 thanks for letting me know! That’s what I’m wondering. Did the wind ease up quite soon after? It could very well be the same here just developmental. In two minds…was breastfeeding still ok? So worried he’ll just stop being able to latch at all if we have it done.

His wind got much better at around 4 months, it was gradual though. Unfortunately he still doesn’t sleep well!. Even though he’s always had a shallow latch we’re still breastfeeding now at 2 years old :) having the tongue tie removed should only ever improve breastfeeding not worsen it, don’t worry

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