My 2.5 yo potty trained back in June. We did the 3 day bootcamp thing as she was showing lots of readiness signs. She mostly got the hang of it - a few accidents here and there in the weeks after but had mostly accident free days during the summer.
I've just had another baby and it's all gone wrong. I know it's likely a reaction to her new reality but honestly I'm at a loss now on how we should respond to this. Initially we tried prompting her to use the loo, telling her to listen to her body, and made very little fuss when it happened and say, "pee goes in the toilet not on the floor, I know you'll do better next time." But it keeps happening. She 100% knows when she needs a wee and how to wee on the toilet. But something else isn't connecting.
I wondered if we'd put too much pressure on her or she somehow sensed that we were too invested in her success (she's very bright, highly sensitive, very strong willed and independent). So we tried completely backing off, not mentioning it, only saying "let's clean you up". But it's not working either.
I really never thought we'd go back to nappies but maybe we need to give her the option? Or would that be taking several huge steps back?
Any advice gratefully received, thanks