wasn’t sure where to post this but here goes…
I separated from the father of my 3 children a couple of months ago. Sometimes we get along fine and sometimes it’s tense (as separations are) …
But the current arrangement is getting me down. We agreed shared custody, and no cash maintenance (I let him know what they need and he buys it).
he works variable shifts and is reluctant and elusive to let me know what he’s working and when he’s having the kids. He has always shared his work rota with me all throughout our relationship, but since I started dating someone new and regained a social life, he gives me less than 24 hrs notice if he’s having the kids and asks me why I want to know. I get the feeling he doesn’t want me making plans or moving on with my life and I feel very restricted.
I feel like I can’t make any long term plans or get on with my life but also can’t force him to give me more info.
AIBU?
sorry for the long post, thanks for reading 💞