We are in a middle of divorce, my husband left me with 4 kids ( youngest was 1). I work. Last week I had to leave my work twice to collect sick children, I stay at home with them always. Last year I had to explain to my employer why I had so many absences. Their dad works in the City and I never know where he is, last few months he simply « disappear » during the week, and never replies to my messages, nether he replies to his mother’s messages, he just turns up as nothing happens on Saturday picks up whoever he wants and brings them back in a couple of hours..,
So this week I realised that when I was trying to contact him to collect our poorly daughter he was actually with OW because «
she needed him »....
I got down with a cold myself, his mum kindly took children, while he was entertaining children of the OW as « they are going through a difficult time »...I have no energy to fight with him, just feel sorry for my children. He actually offered our son «
to join them next time »...,but he doesn’t want to join he wants to have his own time with his daddy...
My friend thinks I should not let him behave that way to me and children, but i don’t know what I can do. Most of the time it’s better when he is not there.... As he is do unpleasant to us..