DD has just turned 3yo. We potty trained at 22mo and she has been out of night time nappies for around 2 months and been waking to go to the toilet/dry nappies for around 3 months more than that. We've had no problems and she's been doing really well. Last month I put her to bed and forgot to switch the sound on the monitor and got distracted making dinner or something and I didn't hear her screaming to go for a pee and she had an accident. I had taken her to the toilet before I put her to bed and she hadn't gone. Since then she has been waking more and more in the night to pee and now its got to the point where she is having tantrums during the night about being taken to the toilet every 2 hours. I have never made a big deal out of accidents and neither had DH but he did mention he has been saying "you don't want to have an accident" to get her to go to the toilet when he puts her down for bed. He has stopped this after he realised it might be causing a problem. I don't think that's entirely what's causing the problem. She is just getting so upset about it. I don't want to put a nappy back on her because that feels like a step back and she always wake up to pee.
She never admits to if she is not feeling well/has a pain but tonight she said it hurts to pee. I had been worried she might have a uti as she peed 5 times in one night and had her pee tested at the drs. they said it didn't show anything up. Could it be something else? She does have an ear infection and is on the last day of her antibiotics.
Any ideas as to what to do?