My daughter is 5 and I’ve bought her a journal which we fill in together at bedtime for her to think about how she has felt that day and the good things that have happened etc I’m also actively trying to encourage her to talk about how she’s feeling when she’s misbehaving/acting up rather than just instinctively tell her off.
My husband is of the opinion that a lot of this is nonsense and I’m over-analysing her behaviour and I should ‘let kids be kids’. He’s started jokingly giving me the nickname ‘Dr Melfi’ (the therapist in The Sopranos) and I feel undermined and dismissed by him. I tried to talk to him about it but it ended in an argument and with me saying that had his mother encouraged him to talk about his feelings when he was a child he might not have grown up to be a closed minded and emotionally immature adult 🙄
Thoughts please? She’s my first born so I’m
new to this age of parenting and want her to grow up being able to talk about and recognise her emotions as it’s not something I was particularly encouraged to do as a child. But equally don’t want to take it too far (if that’s even possible?!) like my husband thinks…
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Husband dismissive of me teaching my daughter about her emotions
supersister · 12/11/2022 17:02
mileaminute · 12/11/2022 17:59
I think what you said to your husband was below the belt and deserves an apology really.
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