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School Dilemma

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Shf1234 · 09/11/2022 11:39

So I’m in a complete dilemma on what to do and need some advice from an outside source as I’m just thinking emotionally and it doesn’t help.

So backstory, my son was placed in a primary for reception we didn’t pick, we couldn’t get any of our choices at all, and the school he was placed in is a Catholic large school which is not an easy school to get to (think busy main road, loads of traffic, no parking- or a 30 minute walk one way)- we are also not Catholic.

Ive been trying to get him into one of our preferred schools with no luck at all. The main one being just a 5 minute walk away.

we found a lovely village school a 5 minute drive away which we didn’t consider before as there are so many good schools close to us we didn’t dream he wouldn’t get a place in one. Plus it means driving every day.

Ive visited the village school, then a second time with my son. It’s a small school and would only be 12 in his class. He liked it and would happily go there.

I know my heart wants him in the school closest to us, he went to nursery there, but it’s a one form entry so no guarantee he’ll ever get a place.

The village school is lovely, has places and we have applied for one.

Im now having a major wobble. Firstly he’s very happy where he is, we are not. But then is the village school just a compromise. Should we be waiting longer to see if a place comes up in the school we love, but a place might never happen.

what would you do in my situation? (Well done if you read this far, I hope I’ve explained it ok!!)

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PritiPatelsMaker · 09/11/2022 19:30

If he's happy I'm not sure why your moving him? What exactly is putting you off the school he's in?

PiffleWiffleWoozle · 09/11/2022 19:32

I would move from a Catholic school if not Catholic personally.

But as he’s happy where he is it sounds like none of your choices are bad anyway really?

ChristmasCakeAndStilton · 09/11/2022 19:39

I wouldn't move to a school as small as the village school. I personally think they are great for 4 year olds, but not great for KS2.
Keep waiting for another place. Don't compromise now.

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Whinge · 09/11/2022 19:44

I would leave him where he is. He's just started reception, made new friends (I assume he didn't know anyone in his class beforehand?) and is getting used to the new routine. If you change schools he has to learn that all again.

I would keep him on the waiting list for the school you would prefer. Then if a place becomes available, weigh up the pros and cons and see if it's a decision that makes sense for your child at the time.

Shf1234 · 11/11/2022 17:57

Sorry I should have said- we really don’t like the Catholic school he is in. We didn’t pick it, it wasn’t one of our options, we tried everything to get him into another school (walkable distance) with no luck. We have our daughter to think of too who starts school in 2 years.

he has friends at the village school so would be fine.

im just wondering if I should be holding out for a place or do we go to the village school which we really like but means we’d have to drive.

(the village school isn’t tiny, 15 in a class and they mix classes so make 30) im fine with that I was in mixed classes and enjoyed it.

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